I thought to myself. I had to find out! I pulled over to the side of the road to watch her and as I sat there, I tried to discreetly take a picture with my cell phone while she went past me.

Me: "Hi, Where are you headed?"
Her: "I'm off to dump my grass."
Me: "Would you like me to help you?"
Her: "That's a nice offer, but I can handle it."
Me: "Those buckets get quite heavy when they're filled with wet grass, Are you sure I can't help you unload them?"
Her: "No, Thank you, but I really enjoy getting out and mowing my lawn once a week, You know, If you stay busy with work when you're my age, You'll be living well too"
Me: "How old are you if you don't mind me asking?"
Her: "I am 86 years young!"
Me: "That's great! I'll have to follow your advice! Where are you going to dump your grass?"
Her: "I dump it here in this empty field, I don't have room for it anywhere around my house."
Me: "Where is your house?"
Her: "Just down the road a bit."
After a few more words, I concluded our conversation, and allowed her to hop back onto her lawn mower and head to her grass dumping site, not far from where we were conversing. On my way home, I decided to take a different route to see if I could find out exactly where she lived. I wasn't sure what I'd be looking for, Perhaps her red riding mower, and some fresh cut grass.. As I turned onto the street several blocks earlier than I had on my way in, I noticed she was still outside, squeezing out the last bit of sunlight while weeding her flower garden just outside, 3 blocks away from the site where she went to dump her grass...
Driving home, I had a few laughs, and thought back on what she said, "She's probably right, If all of us spent a little more time working in our yards, and playing outside, We probably would live a little longer." It seems now days that many of us spend too much time sitting in front of the tube watching TV and being couch potatoes... I hope that we can learn from this lady's example to squeeze out every bit of joy we can from life.
Excellent post! We would all do better to slow down a little and stop to talk to and listen to our elders. After all, they have been around the block before!
ReplyDeleteI think you are dead on with your advice... some of the oldest and happiest people I know are also hard workers. That is just the way they were raised. While I am glad I didn't live through a "great depression" in my childhood, I wish I had some of the character building experiences that these folks do.